PinnedMember-onlyAre They Right For You? 13 Things To Consider Before Starting A RelationshipHow to be confident with your decision — There’s no way around it: if you want a successful relationship, you need to learn how to pick a partner. But when it comes to love… it isn’t difficult to get into a complicated or even hurtful situation. And it’s no wonder. Education surrounding relationships is poor at best, so…Relationships11 min readRelationships11 min read
May 6Member-onlyAre you Kind, or Just Weak?How to be kind without sacrificing respect — In the shows and films we watch there is a common political situation where a benevolent leader must brutally and publicly punish a person for a crime, or lose their credibility and authority over their people. The leader reluctantly carries out the brutal punishment, as not doing so entails significantly…Self6 min readSelf6 min read
Nov 11, 2022Member-onlyA letter to my followersTo the ones who have found value in my articles, and those expecting more. For me, it’s always been incredibly difficult to write. I don’t feel like a “writer”, but I think about a lot, all the time. …3 min read3 min read
Nov 1, 2021Member-onlyWhy you Need to Take Part in No Nut NovemberFar right extremism or personal empowerment? — In case you don’t spend your life on the internet, No Nut November (NNN) is an internet challenge where the rule is that you cannot ejaculate for the entire month of November. For many, this is a joyful and motivating challenge, but obviously such a radical idea has garnered some…No Nut November6 min readNo Nut November6 min read
Published inCurious·Feb 15, 2021Member-onlyHow I Overcome Negative Emotions and Beat Procrastination: A Practical GuideQuestions to help you understand your emotions and increase productivity — Procrastination has plagued me for as long as I can remember. I have always had skills and good ideas, but on many occasions, I’ve been stopped in my tracks when I’ve come up against emotional challenges. I assumed how I felt about a complicated situation was an unchangeable condition. I…Procrastination10 min readProcrastination10 min read
Published inThe Writing Cooperative·Jan 22, 2021Member-onlyWriter’s Overload: How to Salvage your Runaway ArticleAre your articles getting too complex? Here’s how to bring them back. — So your article is now impossibly complicated, long, and unpublishable — perhaps like the last few you attempted. You’re overwhelmed by all the ideas and directions the article could take. Research has piled on more information. …Writing8 min readWriting8 min read
Published inWriters’ Blokke·Jul 20, 2020Member-onlyOther People are Going to Steal Your WorkMy warning to new creators, and general writing etiquette — I had been working on an article over a period of months. As I wrote, I uncovered the core insights I had to offer that helped me after around 10-15 years of personal struggle. …Creativity8 min readCreativity8 min read
Published inAscent Publication·May 18, 2020Member-only10 Essential Life Lessons I Wish I Knew SoonerFrom nihilistic youth to a sense of purpose — Going through youth feeling lost and searching for meaning is hell. You don’t know if you’re right or wrong about anything. You never feel optimistic about the future. You’re prone to making terrible decisions because you don’t know how to evaluate options. You don’t know who you are, and you don’t know what you want. At times you hate the world…Life Lessons16 min readLife Lessons16 min read
Published inRomantic Renaissance·Jan 23, 2020Member-onlyNudes: Why You Shouldn’t Hit SendLove is Temporary, Nudes are Forever — “I shared some of the photos with a few people I trusted. I was old enough to comprehend consequences, but not old enough to accept my part in avoiding them. Apparently, I’m still not — nor will I ever be — because… I refuse to accept that I was even…Sexuality10 min readSexuality10 min read
Published inThe Startup·Dec 12, 2019Member-only20 Things In Life That Are Just Not Worth ItLessons from bad decisions. — This article came out of a casual night of perusing questions on Quora. I was new to the platform and felt like engaging in a few questions to feel it out. I came across the question “what are 20 things that are not worth it? ” and I felt a…Life10 min readLife10 min read