I've tried saying some points in this article before but with women's fingers pointing at me saying "incel!". Women definitely don't want to hear this message from men. It is frustrating being a man and seeing this happen and it's also frustrating that so many men are douches - but like you said, that behaviour is being rewarded. Some women even say it's a man's job to make sure women don't make bad choices by being a good man - which doesn't make sense or trust that women can make good choices.

Men can't control other men, only attempt to influence. I've influenced men I know against pick up artistry, but the best thing to do is for women to help each other with their detection and finding someone who actually cares about them (the real empowerment as opposed to sleeping around).

Unfortunately, a few years of dating douches is enough to turn many decent men away as well because decent is not in lowering standards, but raising them - and the strength of women is the strength in their choice of who they say yes to. Who would feel significant if their partner has said yes to so many others of low quality?

Great work.