Reframing your previous paragraph, this kind of man doesn't want a woman with a few abortions under her belt, doesn't conserve her sexuality, dresses provocatively, and doesn't have homemaking skills. It seems silly to expect all these conservative benefits and yet not want any of the responsibility.

Conservatism is all about potentiating meaning via sacrifice and exclusion for higher ideals - this is why a conservative man will engage in these romantic gestures; he wants to add meaning to his life. A promiscuous woman, for example, dissipates his interpretation of meaning. The liberal, however, finds meaning in variety and less concentration, but cannot also expect the rewards of conservative values without making the necessary sacrifices.