You hit on a lot of good things. Modern feminism is about eliminating any remaining traditional values, eliminating the idea that a woman's actions can change her value, the idea a woman can be held accountable for anything, entitlement to a relationship while not caring about male values or making any sacrifices, blaming patriarchy for all self-created problems, accepting morbid obesity as beautiful, increasingly advocate for women in industries of stark male decline, hating capitalism, deconstructing all sex differences as social, elimination of the importance of women's sexuality, promoting identity politics, intersectionalism, and power. It does not care for truth or women who are not ideologically aligned. It is an institution of grievance and must continuously promote grievance in society.